Lonely men problem

Receiving compliments or people reading this blog feels rather surreal. Sometimes I just write what on my mind, writing what I know. Other times I bit of research. Feels me with confidence that sometimes people stumble over here. Like a drunk asking for directions looking at your garden, clueless on what you just said. I don’t really promote this place or SEO.

Being lonely is a problem, not just social but health one. Took me years to understand that not about being interesting or funny but turning up. Adults lack the structure that helps foster friendship. With time bonds start to form, could be from a common interest. We don’t need just lovers but friendship to alongside that. Ups and downs, sometimes you need to put more effort into other things. Friends remain your friend even if you not spoken for a while.

Seeking out a community that fills you with sense of belonging. I recently took a chance (Here) and found a community I really enjoy. Small internet community that a collection of LGBT+ community well one part of it. Made me realize that I should seek out something more local. I began to understand that me being lonely was a bad thing. Anxiety not helpful with meeting new people or opening up.

Society should take it more seriously, not just man problem but younger men face a loneliness crisis. All ages have a problem here, with so many spaces shutting down and poor public transport it a problem.

Guess I should say thank you for the person who created the space and community. Hope you stick around and find time for us. Hopefully one day I can get to meet various members from this server.

>_> I really needed to be told certain things I had forgotten and allowed demons inside my head to convince me otherwise.